Sunday, June 21, 2026

What He Taught Them

When I think of the phrase, "Teaching by example," I think of my late husband. He lived out that phrase in many aspects of his life: his work, his volunteerism, his faith, his parenting. On this Father's Day, I am reminded of the many things he taught all three of his children by example. 

Maintain lifelong friendships. 

Dress up for church. 

Dress up for dinner.

Actually, dress up whenever the opportunity presents itself. 

Get a good education. Use it well. 

Spend time getting to know your extended family. Know your roots.

Spend time outdoors. 

Embrace the team uniform. 

Learn to appreciate the arts, whether in the audience, on the stage, or behind the scenes. 

Make music. Sing. Learn to play an instrument. 

Dance. Well or poorly, but with enthusiasm.

Don't be afraid to look a little silly.

Be patriotic. Vote. Support the military. Embrace your nation's history and do what you can to improve its future. 

Explore the world, starting with your own state and your own country, then other countries. 

Work with kids (yours or other people's). Teach them what you know. If you don't know it, learn it.

Teach your kids to do things on their own, especially building stuff and fixing stuff.

Learn how to get around using public transportation. 

When you are old enough, learn to enjoy a well-crafted cocktail. Then learn to make one. 

Take lots of pictures. Document your experiences. 

Do things that scare you a little.

Let your kids do things that scare you a little. 

Try new foods. 

Volunteer, especially with an organization that makes the world a better place. 

Get some exercise. Stay in shape. 

But also take time to just relax and enjoy what's around you. 

Never underestimate the power of a good nap.

Eat ice cream for dinner sometimes. 

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